When
it comes to manifesting our dreams and accomplishing our goals, there
are three vital
components that deserve our attention. Before we get into that, ask yourself
the following question:
Am I actively moving in the direction of my goals and dreams
each and everyday?
Everybody
has dreams and most people have goals. If you want your goals and dreams to
become reality, you must move toward them consistently and purposefully. By
nature, we always begin with distance between where we are and where we want to
be. Our job is to narrow that distance until it no longer exists. To accomplish
that, we need to draw our goals and dreams closer to us, while simultaneously
moving toward them.
Some
people attempt to attract their goals without taking much action. Others choose
to act on their goals, but without the added advantage of also drawing those
goals to them. Action alone can bring positive results, but it is much faster
to combine the two techniques.
For
the sake of clarity, let’s differentiate between dreams and wishful thinking. In some conversations, the two might be
interchangeable. Not so in this case. When I talk about dreams, I am really
talking about highly desirable goals, future realities that we fully intend to
realize. For our purposes, a dream is something that we are willing to work
toward, and are determined to manifest, just like a goal.
What kind of life do you dream about?
When
you project your thoughts into the future, how do you see things? Do you see a
variety of positive changes across the full spectrum of your life? Do you see
yourself healthier, wealthier, and wiser? Are you willing to move toward that
vision in order to realize it?
If
so, then this is really a highly desirable goal, and that is exactly the kind
of dream we are talking about today.
3 ways to move toward the realization of our dreams
1) Total clarity. Before we do anything else,
we need to clearly define exactly what our dream or goal is. This is not the
time to deal in generalities; we need to be very specific. One of the best ways
for you to get really clear is to write down a detailed description of exactly
what you want to accomplish.
Writing
things down requires that we get a well defined mental image first. The very
process of putting our thoughts into words creates clarity. This clarity will
help you to form a vivid mental image that you can carry around with you 24
hours a day. Most of the time your personal reference to your new goal will be
that mental image, but you will also be able to refer back to the written
description to help you maintain clarity.
One
of the most powerful things you can include when writing down your goals and
dreams is how they make you feel. The feelings you attach to the things you
intend to accomplish are your greatest source of motivation
and energy. So, be sure to include your feelings in your written description.
Think carefully about each aspect of this future reality. How does it make you
feel? What emotional anchors resonate with each detail? Write them down.
As
you read back through your written description, allow yourself to experience
those feelings and get emotionally involved in the picture. When you conjure up
this mental image of how your life is going to be, fully experience it on an
emotional level. This is the true power of having clearly defined goals, and
identifying your emotional attachments to them.
2) Take action. Now
that you can see and feel your goal with clarity, it’s time to begin moving
toward it. What steps do you need to take to move you closer to realizing this
dream? What sequence do those steps need to be in to produce your intended
result? What action can you take each and every day to keep you moving in the
right direction? Once again, writing these things down will produce clarity. It
is much easier to take action when you know what actions need to be taken.
Reaching
your goals means that you need to take the proper actions at the right time.
There is a natural sequence that will produce your intended result. Following
the right sequence allows events to unfold in a very productive way. Always
take time to create an action plan. Not only will it keep you moving in the
right direction, but it will also allow you to anticipate what comes next.
Of
course, we can’t anticipate everything, and we need to be willing to make
adjustments along the way. That’s the beauty of having an action plan, it
allows us to be flexible without getting too far off course. So, even though we
will need to make minor adjustments, a plan keeps us heading in the right
direction until we reach our goal.
3) Attract your dream to
you. Now
that you know exactly where you are going, how you feel about it, and how you
are going to get there, what’s next? When we started out there was distance
between you and the goal you are working toward. You have been actively closing
that distance by moving toward your vision for the future. Now, it’s time to
draw your dream toward you.
How
can you do that? It’s really just a matter of perspective. Up until now, you
have been projecting yourself into this vision that exists in the future, but
let’s reverse that. Instead of projecting yourself into a future reality, allow
yourself to receive that reality in the present tense.
See
yourself as stationary and your goal
as something that moves toward you, and then surrounds and engulfs you. Wrap
yourself up in it like a giant blanket. Feel the joy of receiving that vision.
Imagine how wonderful it feels to have the reality of that vision totally
permeate your life right now. Feel it in the here and now.
Here are a couple of examples:
*** If part of your dream was a beautiful new home, don’t see it from the
outside; see yourself in the middle of that beautiful dream house. See yourself
living there, going about your daily activities, feeling completely at home and
comfortable. See yourself as a full participant, not a spectator.
*** If you
have been actively moving toward a new career, visualize yourself actually
performing the duties of that career. Again, don’t see it from the outside as a
spectator would. If your new career involves a desk, a computer, and a
telephone, put yourself there. Look at the screen, answer the phone, lean back
in that amazingly comfortable leather chair – participate!
Always harness the power of a 3 dimensional approach
By
employing all three of these techniques, your dreams will become your realities
much faster than you may have thought possible. Nothing in life is
one-dimensional. The quicker you shorten the distance between where you are and
where you want to be, the more empowered
you become. This approach allows you to override the perceived limitations of
time and space, and to more fully comprehend your own ability to manifest
your dreams and goals.
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