It’s
useful to take few moments out every once in a while and really think about who
you are being right now and compare that to who you really want to be. When you
do this you can sometime find there is a disconnection between the two. We have
been taught to think that having things allows us to do things so that we
become who we want to be. If you were to say to yourself “I want to have a
million dollars in the bank and then I will feel like a millionaire” you would
be working off “have-do-be” which is actually the reverse of the success
formula to great riches. Simply put, if you want to have more (whether it’s
money, income, wealth etc) you have to BECOME
more. The late Jim Rohn, the legendary personal development guru said, “Success
is not a doing process, it is a becoming process. What you do, what you pursue,
will elude you—it can be like chasing butterflies. Success is something you
attract by the person you become.”
Realize
that Be x Do = Have
Most
people believe if they "have" a thing (success, more time, money,
love -whatever), then they can finally "do" a thing (change career,
move country, write a book, take up a hobby, go on vacation, buy a home,
undertake a relationship), which will allow them to "be" a thing
(successful, happy, wealthy, content, or in love). However, “havingness”
doesn’t produce “beingness”. It actually works the other way round. Act as if
you are (successful, happy, and wealthy) and you will draw it to you. This is
kinda faking it until you make it except you believe it to be true.
Act
Your Way into a Better Way of Thinking
There’s
a saying which goes: “It’s better to act your way into a better way of thinking
than think your way into a better way of acting”. However, this is only partly
true as it works on the principle of “do-have-be”. You can start acting and
behaving like a wealthy person in order to start feeling more wealthy and
attracting more wealth. However, “doing” will only produce “having” some of the
time, but “being” will produce “having” all of the time. Unless the underlying
subconscious mind program (or mental movie) you have running is congruent with
your actions you’ll soon revert to your old behaviours. It’s just a matter of
time. This is the reason many people fail at dieting, giving up smoking,
getting rich, setting and achieving goals, New Year’s resolutions and so on.
The “programs” or mental movies you have running inside your mind will
ultimately dictate the outcome of your entire life beyond any actions or goals
you make.
Start
'Being' When You Don't 'Have'
Many
people pursue “success” without knowing the formula to achieving success. It’s
important to know how success happens. It’s really not an accident and has
little to do with luck. When you look inside your mind, the mental movie you
have playing about yourself will determine how you feel, how you think and how
you act. Programming the subconscious mind for success works for you on the
basis of Be-Do-Have. Mahatma Gandhi famously said “You must be the change you
want to see in the world.” You must be the change you want to see in yourself.
You can program your mind by allowing yourself to relax and then filling your
mind with visuals of the successful “have” outcome, feeling the associated
emotions travel throughout your body. You are automatically becoming the thing
you see inside your mind. It’s inevitable. The act of filling your mind with
visuals and your body with emotions will dictate what you “do” to ensure that
you “have”. This formula works by creating solutions, opportunities, and
circumstances by you choosing a perspective now, and acting with belief to
achieve an outcome. There’s so much more to understanding and utilising the
subconscious mind as a partner in your success at anything. Utilizing the power
of the subconscious mind can fast-track your achievement in anything in life,
bringing to you great success, developing riches and building wealth.
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