1.
VISIONARY
AND LEADER
God took man
and put him in the garden of Eden to take
care of it and the Lord God
commended the man (Gen 2:15-16).
Whom did the
Lord command. The male-men. The male
being first received all information.
The female wasn’t formed until
instructions where given the male. The
male was given the charge to be the
visionary and leader. The male is to be
responsible for everything under his jurisdiction, this doesn’t mean
women don’t have the capacity, but it
was entrusted to the male. You don’t canvas for votes in the family to
become the head. You are responsible,
God made it so not the family.
A man shouldn’t get married and
say his wife what are we going to do? Well, we will just wait on the Lord, we will see where we are
going. He makes plans, he sees the future the women is a help in achieving it.
2.
TEACHER
God told Adam, do not eat of the three, but the he didn’t tell
Eve. Which means it was Adams
responsibility to teach Eve and guide her.
If you were the first one to discover something and someone else shows up at the scene needing to know something, what does that make you? Primarily
God made men responsible for teaching his
ways, not that women are unable
to teach. The male must be responsible
for godly instructions to their family.
May not be the way things are,
but the way it supposed to. God expect
males to reveal his will and word
to females.
Paul told Timothy in 1 Timothy 3.
If a man wants to be leader in
the church let him first get his house in order.
3.
CULTIVATOR
God gave
male an assignment of cultivating the
garden Gen 2:15. One of males
responsibility is to cultivate.
Means to make something grow and produce greater yield. You as a man is supposed to cultivate and develop everything around you. Make both people and things better. So if you as a man marries a wife and she is looking Haggard, after
months of marriage , then you’ve not cultivated her. Every part of the society should be developing
if there are real men. Unmarried men.
What are you
cultivating? Young girls when a young girl comes into your presence she should leave a better person than she
came. When she is leaving and someone ask what happened to you, she
should be able to
say I met a man who told me he wouldn’t sleep
with me. Cultivate this young ladies,
make them better don’t drag them down.
4. PROVIDER
Primarily,
it is very simple. You don't have to be a
batman as a man or compete with Arnold
Schwarzenegger. You don’t have to
develop big muscles, to fulfill that purpose.
Don't be made at Adam, he is not the reason why you have to work, before
the fall in Genesis to work was ordained.
Work is not a curse Gen 2:2-3 God worked. What is the significance of work.
It exposes you potentials. God
gave male work not only because it exposes his potentials but enables him
provide for those whom he is responsible in his position as a visionary and
leader. Provide comes from a Latin word
meaning to “See ahead”. The male should
be a visionary, he should have a vision for his life and he should work to
see it accomplished, both for him ,his family and others under his care. Before a man needs a woman in his life, he needs
work. God never told the woman to
work. Now don’t get
nervous, its just a societal demands.
God gave a man and not the woman the responsibility to provide for the
home. A woman is us supposed to marry
someone who is already able to provide.
A man is to supply the needs to supply the needs of his family. He is build physically stronger than the female,
particularly in his upper body because
of God’s command for work.
5. PROTECTOR
The Lord God
took man and put him in the garden to take core of it. Another responsibility of man is to “take
care”. He was to take care of
everything, the woman, plants, animals,
everything the woman, plants, animals, everything. God never told the woman to take care but the man.
Why because the woman is one of the things we are supposed to protect.
God designed the male to protect everything under his care and covering. A male is a natural
protector. His physical frame is
an evidence of that but also his mental
capacity. They way he is structured
psychologically is designed to protect.
Any woman should feel safe with
you. But you see some men raise up their hands on women they were
meant to protect... to protect, God gave men.
By: Lusako Mwakiluma
Motivational & Inspirational Speaker
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