The past; the place for which we recall memories,
what some call experience, in essence, what shapes who we are. But for some
people, the past is quicksand, and people fall into it, and never leave it.
Whether good or bad, what has been done is just that, done. Nothing people say
or do can change the finality of those experiences, thoughts, or actions.
The past is for learning from, to look back and to take from it all that is plausible. It is not for dwelling and considering the "what ifs" and "might have beens". Motivations for things are also unnecessary. People lie, and why they lie doesn't really change the fact that they lied. If you know why they did it, would that justify them doing it? Most likely not, so why spend time asking such senseless questions? Is any reason for lying, a good one? Or cheating?
The past is for learning from, to look back and to take from it all that is plausible. It is not for dwelling and considering the "what ifs" and "might have beens". Motivations for things are also unnecessary. People lie, and why they lie doesn't really change the fact that they lied. If you know why they did it, would that justify them doing it? Most likely not, so why spend time asking such senseless questions? Is any reason for lying, a good one? Or cheating?
Think what all the fighting
accomplishes.
People spend so much time trying to change the
past, trying to pretend that things didn't happen, but in reality they really
did. So people have to learn to swallow the past, and move forward, because no
excuses or explanations will justify or alter what has already happened.
So think about it, are you thinking about tomorrow, or still thinking about yesterday? And if you are still stuck on the past, notice that no matter how much you think about it, it is still there, exactly as it happened.
So think about it, are you thinking about tomorrow, or still thinking about yesterday? And if you are still stuck on the past, notice that no matter how much you think about it, it is still there, exactly as it happened.
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